Durning was born in Highland Falls, New York, the ninth of ten children. His three brothers and sister, James (Roger) (1915–2000), Clifford (1916–1994), Frances (born 1919) and Gerald (born 1926), survived to adulthood but five sisters lost their lives to scarlet fever and smallpox as children. He was the son of Louise (née Leonard; 1894–1982), a laundress at West Point, and James Durning (1883 – c. 1939). His father was an Irish immigrant. and his mother was also of Irish descent. Durning was raised Catholic.  In 1959, Durning married his first wife, Carole Doughty. They divorced in 1972. He was legally separated from his second wife, Mary Ann (Amelio) Durning, in 2010. He is survived by his three children from his first marriage.  While pursuing an acting career, Durning, a professional ballroom dancer, taught at Fred Astaire Dance Studio in New York City.

Referred to as “the King of Character Actors”, Durning began his career in 1951. While working as an usher in a burlesque joint, he was hired to replace a drunken actor on stage. Subsequently, he performed in roughly 50 stock company productions and in various off-Broadway plays, eventually attracting the attention of Joseph Papp, founder of The Public Theater and the New York Shakespeare Festival. Beginning in 1961, he appeared in 35 plays as part of the Shakespeare Festival. “That time in my life was my best time,” Durning told Pittsburgh’s Post Gazette in 2001. “I had no money at all, and he (Joseph Papp) didn’t pay much. You were getting a salary for performance plus a rehearsal salary. We would do three plays in Central Park for the summer. And then you’d do three to six plays every year down on Lafayette Street — new plays by new writers: Sam Shepard, David Mamet, David Rabe, John Ford Noonan, Jason Miller.”

During this period, he segued into television and movies. He made his film debut in 1965, playing in “Harvey Middleman, Fireman”. He appeared in John Frankenheimer’s “I Walk the Line” (1970) starring Gregory Peck, two Brian De Palma movies, “Hi, Mom!” (1970), credited as Charles Durnham, with Robert De Niro and “Sisters” (1973). He also appeared in “Dealing: Or the Berkeley-to-Boston Forty-Brick Lost-Bag Blues” (1972) with Barbara Hershey and John Lithgow.

Durning’s performances in Broadway productions include “Drat! The Cat!” (1965), “Pousse-Café” (1966), “The Happy Time” (1968), “Indians” (1969), “That Championship Season” (1972), “In the Boom Boom Room” (1973), “The au Pair Man” (1973), “Knock Knock” (1976), “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof” (1990), “Inherit the Wind” (1996), “The Gin Game” (1997), Gore Vidal’s “The Best Man” (2000).

In 2002, he performed in the Tony Randall produced “The Resistible Rise of Arturo Ui” by Bertolt Brecht with Al Pacino. He played the role of Jack Jameson in Wendy Wasserstein’s final play, “Third” (2005) with Diane Wiest at Lincoln Center’s Mitzi E. Newhouse Theatre.  Durning won the L.A. Drama Critics Circle Award for his powerful performance in The Westwood Playhouse’s 1977 production of David Rabe’s “Streamers”. In 1980, he won critical acclaim for his performance as Norman Thayer, Jr. in Los Angeles’s Ahmanson Theater’s production of “On Golden Pond” opposite Julie Harris.

In 1972, director George Roy Hill, impressed by Durning’s performance in the Tony Award and Pulitzer Prize-winning play “That Championship Season”, offered him a role in “The Sting” (1973). In the Oscar best picture winner, starring Paul Newman and Robert Redford, Durning won distinction as the crooked cop, Lt. Wm. Snyder, who polices and hustles professional con artists. He doggedly pursues the young grifter, Johnny Hooker (Robert Redford), only to become the griftee in the end. Other film credits include Dog Day Afternoon with Al Pacino; When A Stranger Calls; The Final Countdown; The Hindenburg; “Twilight’s Last Gleaming” with Burt Lancaster; “True Confessions” with Robert De Niro. Some television credits include “The Connection”; Queen of the Stardust Ballroom, the made-for-television musical in which he played the mailman who reaches out to Maureen Stapleton’s lonely widow on the dance floor; “Attica”; PBS’s “The Dancing Bear” with Tyne Daly; the PBS production “I Would Be Called John” as Pope John XXIII; “Hallmark Hall of Fame: Casey Stengel”, in which Durning played the legendary baseball manager Charles Dillon “Casey” Stengel; NBC’s mini-series “Studs Lonigan” with Harry Hamlin and Colleen Dewhurst; “The Best Little Girl in the World” with Jennifer Jason Leigh. In 1976, he received both an Emmy and a Golden Globe nomination for his performance in the television mini-series Captains and the Kings.

In 1979, he played Doc Hopper, a man who owns a frog leg restaurant and the main antagonist in The Muppet Movie. In Tootsie, he played a suitor to a cross-dressing Dustin Hoffman. The two actors worked together again in a 1985 TV production of Death of a Salesman.

In 1993, he guest starred in the Sean Penn-directed music video “Dance with the One That Brought You” by Shania Twain.  Other film roles include Henry Larson, the benevolent father of Holly Hunter’s character in Home for the Holidays (1995) and Waring Hudsucker in “The Hudsucker Proxy” (1994). He worked with the Coen Brothers again playing “Pappy” O’Daniel, a cynical governor of Mississippi (a character loosely based on the Texas politician and showman W. Lee O’Daniel) in the Coen Brothers’ “O Brother, Where Art Thou?” (2000).

Prior to appearing in the Burt Reynolds’ TV series, “Evening Shade”, Durning appeared with him in four films, beginning with 1979’s Starting Over (1979), followed by 1981’s Sharky’s Machine, 1982’s The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, and 1985’s Stick.  On TV, he played town doctor Harlan Eldridge on the Reynolds’ sitcom Evening Shade (1990–1994). From 1998-2002, he had a recurring role on Everybody Loves Raymond as the Barone family’s long-suffering parish priest, Father Hubley. He also played the voice of recurring character Francis Griffin in the animated series Family Guy. He appeared on the FX television series Rescue Me, playing Mike Gavin, the retired firefighter father of Denis Leary’s character.

In 2005, he was nominated for an Emmy Award for his portrayal of a Marine veteran in “Call of Silence,” an episode in the television series NCIS, first broadcast November 23, 2004. Durning’s character turns himself in to authorities, insisting that he must be prosecuted for having murdered his buddy during ferocious combat on Iwo Jima six decades earlier. The real truth of the incident only becomes known for certain when the guilt-stricken veteran goes through a cathartic reliving of the battlefield events.

For his numerous roles on television, he earned nine Emmy Award nominations. He also received Academy Award for Best Supporting Actor nominations for The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas in 1982 and To Be or Not to Be in 1983. He won a Golden Globe in 1990 for his supporting role in the television miniseries The Kennedys of Massachusetts, having had three previous nominations. That same year, he won a Tony Award for his performance as Big Daddy in “Cat on a Hot Tin Roof”. He received two Drama Desk Awards for his performances in “That Championship Season” and “Third”.

“There are many secrets in us, in the depths of our souls, that we don’t want anyone to know about,” he told Parade. “There’s terror and repulsion in us, the terrible spot that we don’t talk about. That place that no one knows about — horrifying things we keep secret. A lot of that is released through acting.”  In 1999, Durning was inducted into the Theater Hall of Fame on Broadway. He was honored with the Life Achievement Award at the 14th Annual Screen Actors Guild Award Ceremony on January 27, 2008. On July 31, 2008 he was given a star on the Hollywood Walk of Fame adjacent to one of his idols, James Cagney.